Tuesday, May 13, 2025

Put your red shoes on when the storm comes...

 Here comes an old article that I posted on my other blog first, on Linda Art CPH, then I moved it to the Linda Life Coach CPH.

How to handle storms? This is the last post in this blog. I hope you enjoy it. 


In this post we first go through the Lost Generation, then compare it to Dorothy’s ruby shoes, and finally we arrive at women who face challenges and look for feminine power, a power that is already inside them.

Their private life is their public life, they don’t go home to eat, they are in permanent circulation from cafe to cafe.
– Donald W. Faulkner about the Lost Generation in Paris

Who belonged to the Lost Generation?

The Lost Generation was a group of US writers and artists who came to Europe to live and work in Paris during World War I. They stayed until the Great Depression. Gertrude Stein, who was Ernest Hemingway’s mentor, coined the phrase ”Lost Generation” and gave the group its name. The group included the following American writers: F. Scott Fitzgerald, John Dos Passos, Ezra Pound, Ernest Hemingway, T.S. Eliot, Henry Miller, Thomas Wolfe, John Steinbeck, and E. E. Cummings. Members of the group often had strong connections with one another, and would meet to criticize one another’s work.

All of you young people who served in the war…you are all a lost generation.
– Gertrude Stein

Why did they move to Europe? 

The good old American values disappeared. Faith and religion were broken. The Lost Generation found America intolerant, materialistic, and uninspiring. Most of these writers served in the American army in Europe during WWI. Hemingway, for example, served on the Italian front. America was full of cynical people, who lost their future. A bohemian travelling intellectual life was more attractive.  Paris at that time was cheap and full of creative energy.

If you are lucky enough to have lived in Paris as a young man, then wherever you go for the rest of your life it stays with you, for Paris is a movable feast.
– Ernest Hemingway


Montmartre
Source: https://www.istockphoto.com/

Who influenced them in Paris?

In Europe at the time it is the Golden Age Twenties. Paris is the cultural capital of the world. New movements in art such as Dada, Art Deco, and Art nouveau are on the rise. So are graphical artist such as Picasso, Max Ernst, Joan Miró, and Salvador Dali, to name a few.  The literary scene is also flourishing with poets and writers such as André Breton, Louis Aragon, Paul Eluard, Robert Desnos, and Jean Cocteau. Fashion designers like Coco Chanel, Jeanne Lanvin, and Jean Patou  are inspiring innovation with their designs.

Source: https://forums.ernieball.com/


What is the connection between Dorothy and the Lost Generation?

Dorothy is in trouble when a powerful tornado takes her to a magical land, the Land of Oz. After WWI, Paris is the ”Land of Oz” for the Lost Generation. It gave these artists a fresh start. Dorothy killed the Wicked Witch of the East. Hemingway and his friends couldn’t kill the past, but they could paint it in a different way. They could preset an idealized past, that has little connection to the reality they remembered.  Glinda, the Good Witch of the North, gives the red shoes to Dorothy. These ruby slippers help Dorothy on the journey to the Wizard of Oz and ultimately back home. Gertrude Stein is Hemingway’s mentor, his Good Witch of the North.

Dorothy and the Lost Generation go through a process of self development. They discover the power, the gifts, inside them.

You’ve always had the power my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself.
– Glinda, the  Good Witch of the North

A writer should write with his eyes and a painter paint with his ears.
– Gertrude Stein

Now, about you!

If you are lost, like Dorothy, or if you feel something is wrong with your life, look inside you. You will find the answer there. Just like Dorothy, you have to go through a process to reveal your inner gifts.

Below you will find a list of positive words. Two words for almost every letter of the alphabet. Reading through this list can help you to go through the same process that the Lost Generation artists experienced in Paris, in a very condensed and incomplete way.

amazing, admirable, beautiful, balanced, cheerful, charming, delighted, delicate, elegant, excellent, fabulous, funny, gorgeous, generous, happy, harmonious, interesting, intuitive, joyful, jolly, kind, keen, lovely, loyal, mercy, mindfulness, noble, nice, optimistic, open-minded, pretty, powerful, relaxed, romantic, smiling, smart, thankful, tranquil, unique, upright, vivid, velvety-eyes, wonderful, wise, youthful

Are you ready to put your red shoes on?


Jonathan Wilkins & Katusha Demidova Foxtrot Showdance
Source: YouTube



Danish National Art Library / Danmarks Kunstbibliotek who is a good commenter?

 Do you like Art? Do you like Libraries?

Danish National Art Library / Danmarks Kunstbibliotek is a good start if you look for a quiet place and a lot of interesting books.

What did I find today?

The photo was taken by me.


What does Relyea think? 
Art magazines have come to find art historians more attractive as contributors than independent art critics. This is something he is particularly well placed to notice, having himself crossed over from the hardy band of critics to the better-shaded groves of academe. His explanation for this is not the one I'd have thought of at first - the fact that someone already making a living by his or her work at a for the relatively low pay offered by art magazines than someone university can better afford to work trying to make a living solely by writing. Rather, he suggests, the reason has at least in part to do with the overriding demand for global connectivity: "The critic, when compared to the historian, looks isolated and unconnected" whereas art historians "are abundantly hyperlinked" thanks to their "transcontinental academic archipelago of professionally linked colleagues, sites, and organizations, with their cross-advertised conferences and symposia, through which to travel, mingle, connect." - The Art in crisis (page 82-83)

About the book: Edited by Brad Haylock and Megan Patty.
Contributions by Taylor Renee Aldridge & Jessica Lynne, Kalia Brooks Nelson, Maddee Clark, Justin Clemens, Ben Eltham, Fayen d'Evie & Lizzie Boon, Dan Fox, Maria Fusco, Sarah Gory, Boris Groys, Paul James & Brad Haylock, Flavin Judd, Sara Kaaman, Jessica Gysel & Katja Mater, Bella Li & Justin Clemens, Freek Lomme, Rachel Marsden, Nikos Papastergiadis & Hou Hanru, Megan Patty, Barry Schwabsky, Anna-Sophie Springer & Caleb Waldorf, Astrid Vorstermans.


Who are the real beasts?


Source: Book of Beasts: The Bestiary in the Medieval World
by Elizabeth Morrison (Editor), Larisa Grollemond (Contributor)

"Brimming with lively animals both real and fantastic, the bestiary was one of the great illuminated manuscript traditions of the Middle Ages. Encompassing imaginary creatures such as the unicorn, siren, and griffin; exotic beasts including the tiger, elephant, and ape; as well as animals native to Europe like the beaver, dog, and hedgehog, the bestiary is a vibrant testimony to the medieval understanding of animals and their role in the world. So iconic were the stories and images of the bestiary that its beasts essentially escaped from the pages, appearing in a wide variety of manuscripts and other objects, including tapestries, ivories, metalwork, and sculpture."

I don't think so...


When my "step-grandmother" was the head of sewing school

 What did I learn from my grandfather's second life partner?

She was the head of the department of design and sewing in the sewing high school in Debrecen...

She was nice, she was strict, she carried a lot of pain as well, which she always hid behind her smile.

She was always making some nice dresses; she had her small designer and sewing corner at home. Every time we visited her, she had some project on her sewing machine...

They lived on the top floor, and from their balcony, I could see the whole city at sunset. 

Did she ever make a dress for me?

I do not know, but when we had the last year in the gymnasium, we ordered our dress for the tableau photo from her school... but that time she was already a pensioner...

So my gymnasium class got a little bit from my past, my history as well.

So next time, when you see the tableau in the gymnasium... remember this story :D :D :D

This is Debrecen in a different sunset, from a different viewpoint...
Source: https://www.istockphoto.com/



When I lived together with a Textile pattern designer

 My first university years were very busy between 2004-2008.

I lived in so many places and cities and countries, and continents.

How did it start?

I was super angry with my parents, and I wanted to be free...

So I took the first apartment in Angel land :D :D :D next to the Camel Palace :D :D :D

Where the police worked :D :D :D 

It is a direct translation from Hungarian :D :D :D

I lived together with a primary school teacher, who made her hair every night, so we had a hair salon every night. Plus 7 hamsters in the same room :D :D :D

My roommate figured out pretty soon that studying to be a teacher is a romantic story compared to teaching kids in a school, where there is not enough money to buy basic study materials...

So after 2-3 months, she left her teaching job and became a car insurance agent...

Nah, in the next room, a security service woman lived, who was the owner of the hamsters, but she did not wish to live with them in the same room, as they were too noisy.... :D :D :D they were f*cking all night :D :D :D

Jujjj

In the other room, there was a girl who also needed her privacy, as she was studying to become a lawyer at ELTE. 

Huuuu

Who else did we have?

We had the owner, who was in the last year of Civil Engineering at YBL Architect University, and her boyfriend, who was already a graduated Architect Engineer from the same university. They lived in the salon in front of the kitchen.... So I never ate at home...

Na let's jump to the Textile Engineer :D :D :D

A few years passed, and a lot of stories happened...

I ended up in one of the outside districts of Budapest, Kőbánya / Quarry... we lived in a big house with a garden together with the pensioner, Textile Pattern Engineer... She was the head designer for decades at the biggest textile producer factory in Budapest...

Why did we stop living together?

I nearly died! I got serious pneumonia, as I was not allowed to heat my room well in the Winter...

She also had to sell her house after I left her, and got into a pensionist house... or to her daughter...


What did I study from her?

A lot!

What is the most important?

A textile designer loves the textile so much, that they would never let a TAILOR cut it :D :D :D

My name at that time was Szabó, which means TAILOR :D :D :D

hehehe, I did it every week :D :D :D


Fiskars Crafts 8180 RazorEdge Fabric Shears, 8-Inch
Source: https://www.amazon.com/




Monday, May 12, 2025

How many dead people you have to visit to get to the Fashion Academy? Hungary

 In my previous post, I wrote about visiting the Polish cemetery.

I had to visit another cemetery also before I got the internship to go to Poland.

My family in the 19th-century was very diverse regarding nationality...

I had one part that came from  Armenia/Gruzia... they took 10 years to get accepted fully by Debrecen...

They were merchants, textile merchants... They had a huge commercial house.. Nowadays it is an insurance house ;)

They were buried in a place that was moved and became the I. parcel of the big cemetery in Debrecen...

Guess what was built over their original place, where their tombs were in the first place?

A huge shopping center, full of fashion shops...

And a theater..

Why?

As they were the founders of the big theater of Debrecen, they even paid for 10 years the actors...

Was it the only thing they did?

Nope...

This family brought Rotary to Debrecen...

They paid several poets...

They paid for several sculptures in the city...

Who were they? It was a big family...

Some of the girls never reached 18 years, as they died earlier, but the painting about them is one of the most important art of the time, which was for a while in the National Gallery...

And a lot more...

So if you see me in the shopping center, in Debrecen and I want to drink a coffee next time... Sh*t the F*ck *P!!!

Or I will send my ancestors after you... 



Is Death part of the art, fashion industry?

 Is Death part of the art, fashion industry?

Yes, as it is a circle....

In another blog, I wrote, that I died 260 times in one day.

How was it possible?

Me as a kid, I was a regular cemetery visitor. Some kids knows their classmates in the nursery. I just remember only two. One, I kissed a boy, and the other, who thought she can be more beautiful then me...

Nah but how does it make sense?

Yahhh I know more dead kids in the cemetery, then in my nursery alive... 

Uuuhhh, why? When I was a little girl, with my grandmother we went to the cemetery very frequently. 

I was always allowed to walk around the old part, where 19th-century tombs were... and a little bit "younger" tombs... but mostly kids... some even had photos... 


So but how comes the 260 death?

When I was in Poland, I wanted to get to the Fashion Academy. But there was one more thing to do before...

Visit the GHETTO, where the Jews suffered during the WWII.

I visited 260 people's tombs, they were my family....

Then I got a new friend, who was a student of the Fashion Academy, and lived next to the cemetery, and her hobby was to run around the cemetery in the night :D :D :D


Pictures are from https://www.tripadvisor.ca/





Poland - Łódź - Manufaktura and Fashion Academy

 In 2011, I was first time in  Łódź, Poland. I was in an export internship. I lived in Poland also in 2012, 2013 and 2014.


I visited the Akademia Sztuk Pięknych, which is the Fashion Academy in Łódź.


Source: https://studyinlodz.com.pl/


Some of my photos from Łódź:









What to know about the Manufaktura?


Source: https://www.worldisbeautiful.eu/


Nowadays, Manufaktura is one of the biggest malls, shopping centers, and leisure complexes in Europe.

What was before the Manufaktura? A huge textile factory. It was the heart of the textile, that connected Paris and Moscow.


How did it start?

"In 1835, Kalman Poznański and his one-year-old son, Izrael, moved to Lodz from Aleksandrów Łódzki. Kalman owned a market stand at Stary Rynek in Lodz, where he sold various spices and fabrics. During that time, the Lodz industrialists grew in money and power - as the Russian market for fabrics, mainly cotton, increased. When Izrael Poznański inherited his father's company, he also decided to reshape and expand his business. He bought the plots around Ogrodowa Street, where he built the weaving plant in 1872. During the next 25 years, he expanded to a new complex consisting of weaving plants, spinning mills, a bleachery, power plant, finishing plant, dyehouse, warehouses, fire station and a company store. He also built houses, a hospital, a school and a community centre and canteen for thousands of his workers.! - https://www.wikiwand.com/en/articles/Manufaktura


Do you know?

- Barbara Hoff

Source: https://culture.pl/


- Piotr Kałuża


Source: https://www.rybnik.com.pl/




New Zealand - Wellington History, Fashion, Fashion street

 In 2012, I was third time in New Zealand. I visited Wellington and the library. 

My fashion research started earlier, and I wanted to continue in New Zealand as well.

I found a lot of interesting designers and the fashion street as I read about them in the library.

Do you know? Two designers come now...

- Marilyn Sainty


Source: https://nzfashionmuseum.org.nz/

- Karen Walker


Source: https://businessdesk.co.nz/


These pictures are made by me. 






















Denmark - Black Diamond Library 19th-century women and crochet

 In 2016, one of my interesting projects was to research the 19th-century female hand art magazines in the Black Diamond Library.


The Black Diamond, Copenhagen
Source: https://www.kb.dk/




Linda Art Cph: Black Diamond Library
Source: YouTube


Those journals were written in a different Danish language. I could understand it, as before I studied German and Swedish as well. 

Those journals were digitized, and in the library, there was a special room, where on the computer, I could research the dias... 



Linda Art Cph: Crochet Patterns from the 19th Century of Denmark
Source: YouTube


That time, I recreated several patterns, some had only a picture and no description, but I was experienced in crochet. I started crocheting when I was 4 years old. 

In Vanløse, I had a workshop about this historical crochet as well. 




Linda Art Cph: Exhibition and Workshop - Crochet Projects
Source: YouTube



Hair styles, hairdressers, golden hair...

 When I was a child, my grandmother always made beautiful braided hair for me.

That time, my grandmother had dauer / permanent waves on her hair, and I always went with her to the salon. It usually took 2-3 hours or more by the time we were done. 

My mother used a curler to make my hair beautiful.

In the late 2000s, I lived together with a hairdresser. I rented a room in her house. 

In 2014, I had a blog on how to make yourself beautiful, where I also talked a lot about different braided styles. 

Do I like all the hairdressers?

Nope...


As I do not like my second cousin, who is a hairdresser...

How did our fight start?

She invited me to her second husband's wedding. 

Several years later, I invited her to my first husband's wedding, but we had ceremonies in several countries. So I invited her to the third celebration... where she could see pictures of my hair and makeup from the first party. 

She was super jealous of all my parties and even of my hair...


But hey... I studied a lot about beautiful hair styling during the years... and I did my hair first, took pictures, then I showed it to the hairdresser, and she made it again for me for the wedding. 

When I got married, I was already a certified nail technician as well.


So I like some hairdressers, I do not like some hairdressers. 


Not every hairdresser has the same knowledge and the same style...


But taking care of the hair is important. Hydration, oils are important.

I also made the translation for my uncle's website, who has his own dermatology brand. Plus, in the previous times, the brand had special shampoos as well...


So many interesting life experiences, family stuff, and conflict or happy times...


Do you love your hair?


Hair is very important in Nordic Mythology as well.

Do you know the fairy tale / the story of Sif and her golden hair?

Source: https://odinstreasures.com/




Why is it important to study LAW even if you are in beauty, fashion and party industry?

 


Fashion law: Intellectual property in fashion
Source: https://letslaw.es


My father's father came from a family originally, who on one side were Polish royals, on the other side one of the most important lawyer families from Hungary, Budapest, Dohany Street.


When did I start to study LAW? At some level of law or social samfund studies we started to study in primary school. It was in the 1990s.


Skincare Coach Certification - USA/International Credentials

 I studied from Hellen Davis.

Who is Hellen Davis?

Hellen Davis, Founder, and CEO of Indaba Global Coaching LLC has over 25 years of experience as a professional coach. Hellen's background is in Sales, Insurance, and Computer Programming. She provides Hellen is an Executive and Life Coaching to clients around the world. - https://indabaglobal.com/





Source: https://www.linkedin.com/


Hellen's Story

Hellen Davis grew up in South Africa. While in South Africa she owned an import/export company, served as a paratroop instructor for the government, and was successful in insurance sales.

Hellen has a love for traveling and was educated in multiple countries - South Africa, United Kingdom, and the United States. She migrated to the United States to become a model and later went into insurance sales.

After quickly rising to the top of the insurance industry her entrepreneurial mind took over. She started a cosmetic company which she successfully built and sold to start Indaba Global. - https://indabaglobal.com/


Hellen's Experience

Hellen Davis is the CEO and founder of Indaba Global Coaching, LLC. She is also an executive officer of Indaba Health and Wellness, LLC. Hellen is respected for her extensive knowledge of accountability and executing strategic goals, as well as influencing strategies, strategic planning, behavior modification processes, sales and peak performance management expertise, and negotiation tactics. Ms. Davis has written many books, including the best-selling The 21 Laws of Influence. Her favorite is Noble Intent, co-authored by Fran Landolf. Her clients include executives and leaders from dozens of Fortune 100 corporations, as well as leadership in the top agencies in the public sector. - https://indabaglobal.com/


Hellen's Achievements

Hellen started Indaba to use her knowledge and expertise to help other professionals. She began by speaking and signing individual clients to take through her self-developed coaching materials. After building a book of business, she decided to automate her materials by creating them as eLearning programs.

Hellen could now deliver the content she used to create a successful company to people all over the globe. The eLearning programs were a hit and the MBA-level courses allowed clients to use the materials from the convenience of their own homes. Hellen was not done, she soon after created her own behavior assessment, DISCflex.

Indaba Global's software platform is the culmination of Hellen's life work. It allows clients to access content-rich materials and assessments. Hellen uses these programs with her clients, and Indaba Global supplies these programs to colleges, businesses, and coaches across the globe. - https://indabaglobal.com/


The aim of the course, I took on Udemy from Hellen Davis: Skincare Coach Certification - USA/International Credentials:

- Understand the fundamentals of Skincare Coaching and how to make money as a CSC (certified Skincare Coach)

- Become well-versed in the biology of the skin so that you can explain to clients what is occurring with their complexion

- Understand how the skin ages throughout the decades of a person's life and how to slow the skin's aging processes

- Learn how to have Coaching Discussions that will resonate with clients

- Explore how to analyze product ingredients, pricing, and anticipated results

- Discuss ways to change a client's skincare habits for optimal results

- Learn how to analyze the client's goals and objectives for their skin

- Listen to how you can have tough or critical conversations with your clients without offending them

- Discover how to recommend products and ingredients that you determine will work toward your client's goals

Certified Nail Technician / Kézápoló és Műkörömépítő

 


Source: https://www.diamondnails.hu/


As I mentioned in the previous post, I loved to change my color on my nails from I was 10 years old.
I had a lot of nail polish.
And yes, my next journey about collecting a lot of nail polish was in Poland. In 2011, when I made my first internship in Poland through AIESEC, the fashion was very vibrant colors on nails. I was amazed from the Polish girls' nail polish :D :D :D
Yes! Yes! Yes! :D :D :D  I also bought a lot of vibrant colors for myself. 



Source: https://hospitality.brussels/

How did I get to the point of being a Certified Nail Technician / Kézápoló és Műkörömépítő?

In 2014, I was back to Debrecen, and I wanted to change a lot of things. So I was studying French, German, Accounting and I took a course at Diamond Nails Bt in Debrecen to become a  Certified Nail Technician / Kézápoló és Műkörömépítő.







Certified Beauty Party Planner - in medias res

 

Diving in Gold
Source: https://disneyartonmain.com/

What does it mean "in medias res"?
In the middle

Just like the Disney movie or series starts with Scrooge McDuck swimming in gold. 
That is how I start this blog.

Last year, I took a course, that was called Certified Beauty Party Planner.


Which institute provides it?
ICOES - International Open Academy

ICOES stands for the International Council for Online Educational Standards. It is a foundation based in the Netherlands, dedicated to enhancing the quality and standards of online educational products.


The primary objective of ICOES is to offer accreditation services to online educators, elevating their reputation, credibility, and trustworthiness. By providing comprehensive guidelines and constructive feedback, ICOES ensures that all endorsed training content adheres to the highest educational standards.


One of the key benefits of ICOES is the provision of high-quality, verifiable, and cost-effective certificates for online graduates. These certificates are internationally recognized and serve as a testament to one’s accomplishments, increasing market value and offering a visible validation of achievement.


Why is it good to make Beauty Parties?

As Beauty people need to celebrate that life is beautiful.

Who is a beauty person?

This is a big question, and the answer can be very diverse...


Botticelli: Birth of Venus (c. 1484–1486)
Source: https://www.britannica.com/


Picasso: Les Femmes d'Alger (1955)
Source: https://middlesexconsulting.com/


Why was it easy for me to study this course?
I come from Hungary, Debrecen. In my city, we have amazing thermal pools, spas and beauty treatments.
I started to study about make ups when I was only 10 years old. I used high-quality face cream when I was only 5 years old.
I made my first self designed and taylored silk pink dress to my Barbie, when I was less then 6 years old. 
By I was 12 years old, I had a lot of nail polish and make up tools, it was one of my afternoon activity to try out new and new combinations. 
I was 12 years old, when I was enrolled high level music classes, but I chose my cosmetology meeting over the singing.
Was it easy? No

The story goes on and on...
I have a lot of education, which already supports this course.
I also studied Tourism and Hospitality Management before.
I also studied winemaking and spirits making.
My ballet classes when I was 8 combined drama and yoga as well.
Acting is also an important part of the Beauty business.
There is always a point where everything meets.

Studying French and Italian was also important. 

Do you think about taking this journey? 
Fine. It is interesting, and you can always learn something new...
Just keep one thing in mind. 

Being beautiful is a big job!!!




Put your red shoes on when the storm comes...

  Here comes an old article that I posted on my other blog first, on Linda Art CPH, then I moved it to the Linda Life Coach CPH. How to hand...